Does Your Partner Consider You Attractive?

Many married people fell in love at first-sight with their partners and then other things fell in place that culminated in wedlock. However, many of such couples tend to lose the charm that attracted their partners to them in the beginning.

 

I have argued severally that love at first-sight began with the very first couple on earth - Adam and Eve.

 

To create the woman, the first man was put to sleep and the woman was formed out of his ribs. When he woke up from the sleep, did he reject or run away from the woman that was presented to him?

 

Of course no! It was love at first sight! The simple reason for this was the charm they both exuded.

 

They were both charming and attractive and there was a compelling attraction, beauty far beyond any other consideration. However, they did not lose this charm and lived many years together.

 

The question to married people today is: why do we lose our charm after marriage? Why do we fail to make our partners to continually crave for the sparks they saw in the beginning? 

·        No matter the job you do, always freshen up. Use perfume or deodorants if you have body odour.

·        Look good and presentable.

·        Shave those beards and cut those nails.

·        Untidiness is not a sign of humility.

·        Check your weight, eating habits, and other things that might put off your partner.

 

If your spouse dislikes your appearance, he/she will despise your presence. It is extremely dangerous for your other-half to be uncomfortable in your presence.

 

Humbly ask your partner to give you a list of what they wish you correct in your appearance and personality.

 

Your partner must be confident with you around. If you are a woman, note that if your dressing and appearance is a reflection of whom you belong to or represent. Don't misrepresent your husband or wife in public.

 

This is why couples are proud to show off their partners at ceremonies and social gatherings and they sometimes tell their partners to change their attires to conform to their taste or expectation.

 

No matter how long you may have been married or how old you are, make yourself attractive and charming to your partner. This is important because if a person runs away from one thing, he or she finds comfort in another and clings to it.

 

Don't be repulsive to your wife or husband. Don’t drive your beloved away! Do all you can now to refine your appearance to put a fresh spark into your marriage. 

Be attractive!