Tuesday 26 January 2016

UNHOLY MATRIMONY: Murderer Married the Only Witness, So She Doesn’t Have to Testify Against Him




Joseph Nelson allegedly killed his ex, their son, and her boyfriend as his girlfriend watched. Thanks to a jailhouse wedding, he’s essentially silenced the only person who can testify against him.

Pastor Gregory Clemons has married off hundreds of couples, but he still can’t believe he wed an accused murderer to the only eyewitness of the triple homicide.

Joseph Nelson is accused of killing his ex-girlfriend Bianca Fletcher, their 1-year-old son JoJo, and Fletcher’s 18-year-old boyfriend Shannon Rollins. On September 8, authorities say Nelson shot all three to death after an argument while Shellana Davis, his girlfriend, watched. Now the two are married and thanks to that she may not be compelled to testify against Nelson.

“I felt like they were getting closer to God. But I did not know about the murders… I just regret it now,” Clemons told The Daily Beast a week after learning what the two allegedly did.

“It could possibly be my last wedding because I don’t want to be in this kind of situation again,” Clemons said. Ever since he discovered his blessing could cause an unholy outcome, the pastor says he’s been repenting “in prayer.”

The behind-bars love affair becoming an official marriage could grant a lifeline for two accused killers.
Like any wedding, Nelson and Fletcher set a date, December 7, and a venue: a visitation cubicle inside the Jackson County, Missouri detention center.

“There was glass between them,” Pastor Clemons said of the unorthodox ceremony. “We had phones and we prayed and we talked about studying the Bible.”

Nelson was outfitted in an orange jumpsuit and a kiss was out of the question so the couple improvised.
“Palms on glass,” Clemons said. “No exchange of rings. No kiss. I left them alone after that.”

And at the time the pastor never had any reason to question their motives, either.

“We were there because they felt like God had brought them together and they wanted to be joined in holy matrimony,” he said.”

And they seemed to be smitten.

“I read people’s faces and I feel I can see love in people’s faces. It was there at the same time I’m looking at them, not knowing they may have committed murder,” he said.

That’s what prosecutors say happened on September 8 last year when Nelson and Davis rolled up to Fletcher’s home at 9:30 p.m.

A source close to the investigation confirmed that Nelson’s new girlfriend was embroiled in “drama” with Fletcher who had only just begun dating Rollins for “a few weeks,” a source and family members confirmed.
“Shellana had an issue with the new girlfriend Bianca,” the source said. Nelson, the police report notes, was “sick of it.”

So Nelson and Davis barged into Fletcher’s home “unannounced” to “chill,” according to police.
Instead, Nelson began quarreling with his ex.

By most of accounts (save for Nelson’s where he told cops he was “asleep for most of the day” and denied any involvement), tensions rose to the point where Fletcher “threw a diaper at Nelson, which struck him,” according to the police report that quotes Nelson telling his friend, Mark Benson, what happened. The cops heard two versions of what happened next.

One was from Benson, 23, who said the alleged murderer confided in him about the killings. The other was his fiancée Davis who gave her own account of the bloodletting.

Either the diaper-disgraced Nelson rose up, pulled out a pistol, and fatally shot Fletcher before hunting down her boyfriend and his own son; otherwise, it was Davis that had actually killed Nelson, and then forced her boyfriend to prove his love by rubbing out potential eyewitnesses in Fletcher’s boyfriend and his own boy.
Benson told police that Nelson and Davis picked him up following the slayings and that Davis was inconsolable, wailing as they all drove off together.

When they arrived at Nelson’s home, the two talked on the porch. Nelson, according to the police report, announced, “I was there and saw it, so other things had to be done.”

Benson says Nelson right then copped to the worst of crimes.

“I did something bad,” he said. “I did something I don’t think I can live with… I killed them. I killed them.”
The diaper toss forced Nelson to go berserk.

“I lost it,” he told Benson, according to the police report.

When asked why Nelson shot to death Fletcher’s boyfriend and his own crying son, he answered point blank: “Witnesses.”

Apparently, the report adds, Nelson felt that JoJo’s crying would have drawn too much attention.
Nelson allegedly gave the murder weapon and a bag of shell casings to Benson, who told authorities he got rid of them.

Benson also said that Nelson charbroiled his and Davis’s blood-stained clothes in a barbeque pit and that Nelson “showered numerous times and washed his hands with bleach.”

Shannon Rollins

Davis’s version mostly squares with Benson’s save for a few details. She told police that the visit to Fletcher’s seemed civil; that the couple was sitting together inside Fletcher’s living room; that words got heated Fletcher asked why Nelson brought along his new flame to her home. Then things went wrong.
Nelson ordered Fletcher to sit down and, according to Davis, she refused. Instead, she tossed a “household item” at Nelson, which missed him.

“Nelson then shot [Fletcher],” according to the police report. A frozen Davis winced as she watched as Nelson “check to see if she was dead.”Davis said then she “heard another gunshot” and turned her head away before she “then ran out of the house.”

She didn’t remain outside for long.

Nelson apparently ordered her back inside to collect “as many shell casings as she could find.”

Cops ultimately caught up to Nelson and prosecutors hit him with a raft of murder charges while Davis remained free. As detectives were busy trying to build a case that she was at least culpable in the triple homicide, Davis reached out to Pastor Clemons about getting married to the accused murderer sitting in jail.
“Shellana was very emphatic,” Clemons said. “She contacted me several times and and wanted to get in there and do this.”

The first call he remembered Davis simply asked if he could marry incarcerated couples.
“She called and asked ‘Do you do weddings at the Jackson County Detention Center?’ and I told her ‘I had done them. We can talk about it and meet down there. The caseworker has to approve it and there’s plenty of time to talk.’”

The pastor is struggling with the fallout since the news hit the couple was hitched. Yet he insists there were others in place to put a halt the couple’s wedding.

“I did not research their backgrounds, the people that issue the licenses do that. It has to go through a caseworker in the jail. It went through a string of people before I was allowed to come into that environment and do that.”

A month before Nelson and Davis became husband and wife, Jackson County’s prosecuting caught wind of the pending nuptials and raced to depose Nelson before it was too late.
  
“The State has now learned that on October 21, 2015, the defendant and Ms. Davis have filed an application with the Jackson County, Missouri Recorder of Deeds for a marriage license,” Jean Peters Baker wrote in a motion. Otherwise, Davis’s “testimony, in some respects, could become unavailable to the State after she is married to the Defendant.”

So the the prosecutor pleaded with the judge to be able to “preserver [Davis’] testimony by deposing her on video.”

Marriage license for Joseph Nelson and Shellana Davis
Unfortunately, it appears the judge didn’t act in time to approve the motion.

Prosecutors have since filed another motion for special bond conditions so that Nelson “be ordered to have no contact” with any of the witnesses in the case, including his wife. The fact that Nelson has “shown a willingness to contact witnesses… has been done for the purpose of impacting testimony.”

The prosecution faces multiple obstacles before the trial gets underway in October, especially regarding any statement by the former Miss Davis against her new husband, says Frank Bowman, a professor at the University of Missouri Law School.

First, she may have some criminal liability even if she didn’t kill anyone, since she allegedly admitted helping cover up the crime, Bowman said. Therefore she can avoid testifying simply on the basis of her Fifth Amendment to not incriminate herself, which would be available to her even if she wasn’t married to Nelson. The prosecution could surmount this hurdle by asking the judge to grant her immunity from any charges in this case, Bowman added.

Second, Missouri has a “spousal testimony privilege.” That means the new Mrs. Nelson can refuse to testify against her husband about things “that happened during the marriage, but also things that happened before the marriage,” Bowman said. Like these killings.

However, if the prosecutors can convince the judge that the marriage was a “sham,” entered into for the purpose of creating a testimonial privilege, the privilege could be rendered void.

“Even if that marriage had all the bells and whistles like a marriage certificate—if it was meant to bar her from testifying then the privilege doesn’t apply,” Bowman said.

A partial solution to the privilege problem may lie in the fact that Missouri law voids the spousal privilege in cases with victims under 18, as two of the decedents were. Bowman said using this statute might require two different trials, one for the minor victims and one for the adult.

Finally, if Mrs. Nelson can’t be compelled to testify against her husband, you might think the prosecutors could use the statements she made to the police before she married and clammed up. However, those statements may be barred by the “Confrontation Clause” of the Constitution and rules against “hearsay.” Both those barriers might vanish if the judge believes the defendant engineered his “wife’s” silence by marrying her.

Her father, Andrew Hill, doesn’t believe it was a match made in love.

“I’m trying to get answers,” he told The Daily Beast, adding that Nelson corrupted his daughter. “She was on a good track and then she fucked it up. She met him and he’s a bad person and he has a bad history.
“I’m lost right now and trying to figure out how this happened.”

Still, getting pass the legal hurdles will be easier than getting over the three lives lost that night.
“At the end of the day a loved one is gone,” Rollins’ uncle Lee Washington, who says he helped raise the promising dancer, told The Daily Beast. “No matter if this guy and his woman goes back in the jail for the rest of their lives I don’t get any satisfaction because Shannon’s life was taken.”

The family has been “pitching in” to raise Rollins’s son who is now fatherless. The fact that his nephew’s alleged killers are now married, further salts the wound torn open by bullets.

“The only way we get justice is if we kill that motherfucker ourselves and that ain’t going to happen,” he said. “And if they dupe the system it really doesn’t matter because we still lost Shannon. We still have a great kid gone that has a child left here without a father.”

The funeral was especially tough, his uncle said.“We buried him on his 19th birthday.”
Washington remembered of Rollins as a handsome heartbreaker.

“Shannon had a great smile and very likeable and was too smart for his own good,” he said.“Shannon had so many girls it was ridiculous. We had to change schools because had so many girlfriends.”
The proud father who worked night shifts at various odd jobs to support his baby was a means to a greater ends.

“His main goal in life was to get into showbiz,” Washington said.

Rollins went by the moniker Akira Kenzo a.k.a. "Whiteout" in a series of homemade, solo dance videos featuring Rollins gyrating his body to base-thumping, heavy synthed tracks.

But for all his talent and natural athleticism, it was a slow rise to fame. A few months back Rollins put up a testimonial on YouTube admitting how much of a struggle it’s been to shine as a dancer in his hometown.
“Everybody on here y’all my family; I love y’all… This shit’s hard, especially dancing. I’m coming out of Kansas City and there’s not that many dancers down there. I’m proud to say I’m one of the many few… That’s all a nigga needs is one viral video and I’m straight, man. That’s all I need. Help me out.”

The grieving uncle who helped raise Rollins said he was very much a victim of “being at the wrong place, wrong time.” But the real tragedy is that the gun-toting Nelson became unhinged over a diaper toss. “We have a society that turns out people like Joseph [Nelson],” Washington said. “He came up through the system, he was abandoned and he was forsaken.

“Nobody takes time to love him and teach him any empathy for others. When you grow up in the streets it’s a jungle out there.”


Monday 25 January 2016

America’s Serial Rapist Cop, Daniel Holtzclaw, Sentenced To 263 Years in Jail



Oklahoma County Sheriff's Office/Handout via Reuters
For the victims, detectives and attorneys who were behind the case for a year and half, the 263-year prison term handed out to Holtzclaw brings relief.

Lead Detective Kim Davis said she held the hand of the victims for the entire process.

“It’s what I wanted,” she said about the sentence. “I wanted to ensure that he doesn’t get out and I’m happy with it.”

Victim advocate Sheri Dickerson has been in the courtroom for the entire trial. She wanted to jump for joy when hearing his sentence, but said there’s also concern for Holtzclaw and his family.

"His choices have lead to the destruction of his life,” Dickerson said. “I have empathy for his family. I hope he is able to be rehabilitated and possibly, if there’s any good, that he would be able to mentor other sexual predators to change their habits and life style.”

Holtclaw, 29, glared at the three victims as they read their impact statements, but they never looked his way.
Holtzclaw’s family has remained silent.

His father, Eric Holtzclaw, said there are a lot of friends in the Enid community that believe in his son’s innocence. He expressed hope that someone will come forward and say this was all made up.

Daniel Holtzclaw's attorney, Scott Adams, broke his silence about the case for the first time since the trial started.

“It’s a tough case from the beginning," Adams said. "We knew when we got started with it, it is what It is. Daniel maintains his innocence.”

Adams said a higher court would handle any appeals from now on.

The way Holtzclaw's sentence is structured, he likely will never be eligible for parole. He waived his right to stay in a local jail, and he could be transferred to prison any time after Thursday.

Because of his former job as a police officer, he could be ordered to serve his sentence in another state.
Holtzclaw, who was found guilty on 18 of 36 charges relating to sexual assault on Dec. 10, will have a deadline to file appeals and motions once his record is complete, which could take several months.


Sunday 24 January 2016

Signs Of A Solid Relationship (Building A Solid Relationship / Marriage In 2016 - 2)



In our last post on building a solid marriage/relationship (read it here), we mentioned there are 5 signs to tell if your relationship is solid and how you can make that desired improvement.

Here are what you must do in 2016:

1.         There is Mutual Enjoyment:
The Union should bring benefits to both parties in the marriage. If only one person is favoured, then such a relationship is like a table with two legs waiting to fall.  The marriage union provides:

  •                   Sexual benefits:    Romance and sex should be mutually enjoyed by the husband and the wife; not one using the other as a toy or tool.  Do you satisfy your spouse in the bedroom?

  •                   Emotional enjoyment:    Feelings of affection, love and being wanted, cherished and cared for is a prerequisite for joy in marriage. Can your spouse confidently say you cherish him/her? Do you do the same?

  •                   Psychological Enjoyment:  Marriage affects how we talk, act and how we relate with others. The union should have a positive impact on the mental state, attitude and character of the parties.

  •                   Societal Enjoyment:  Are you happy you married your spouse? If you are ashamed to go out or walk with your in public, then you don’t have a solid marriage. If you marry your spouse merely to keep him/her away as a secret weapon who must never have dealings with other people, yet you do, that union is not solid. It is one-sided.


2.         There is Mutual Respect:
A solid union is one where there is respect for each other’s feelings, opinions, values and expectations. Do you take decisions that affect your spouse and expect him/her to just endorse them? Do you put down your spouse in public or before his/her friends, colleagues, relatives, and /or children?

Besides, does your being married to spouse convey any respect or value on him/her? How is he/she viewed outside?

3.         There is Mutual Trust:
Without trust, the very foundation of any relationship would be shaky. A union without trust but filled with repeated suspicion is nothing but an accident waiting to happen.

Marriage is like a garment. When it is torn, it cannot be sewn with ‘cellotape’. The only thread that keeps couples bonded together is trust.

Trust does not involve fidelity or infidelity issues alone. It includes morals, character discipline and how you handle your spouse’s finances. Can your spouse trust you to remain faithful to him/her when money is involved? Can you be trusted to manage your spouse’s?

4.         There is Shared Challenges / Experiences:
In a solid relationship, things bothering one party bother the other. Challenges, problems and trials are shared just as victories and successes are jointly celebrated.

A marriage where each person is left to fight their own battles and only meet in bed or the dinning table is not solid.  A marriage where the couples does not concern themselves with what affects the other party is not solid.

5.         There is Give & take – Reciprocity:
A solid marriage is not where only one person gives or contributes to the union. Such a relationship would not last, and if it does, it would not be enjoyable.

Couples need to reciprocate kind gestures, affection and love. But reciprocating does not necessarily mean you give back in same quantity. Rather you give in truth, sincerity and openness, the measure you can realistically give back.

Now you can tell if your relationship is solid or not. But remember, marriage is a house you build everyday, continually. Keep improving what you can and cut off things that threaten your relationship.

I wish you happy union in 2016.


Saturday 23 January 2016

5 Reasons Women Should Wear Longer, Breezier Skirts

This is 2016 and a lot of people have made New Year resolutions, and for many, these includes dressing up (or perhaps, dressing down) to portray the best look they ever had.

Indeed, a lot of people want to go skimpy. Even married women still want to bare it all and squeeze themselves into skirts they wore when they were teenagers. Everybody wants to belong and be trendy.

But as a wife, there are stuffs you could wear that would stand you out as gorgeous, responsible and smart. Truly, I think it is awful for a married woman to compete with kids and teen for clothes that reveal her laps and project her hips. 

Short skirts are great. But going long in 2016 is even greater. The long and midi skirts are just as good to accentuate your curves and general look, if you wear them right.

Here are five reasons why they are still in vogue:

1.         It is elegant, ladylike look that manages to make you look both classy and simple at the same time.

2.         They flow with your shape and gives you room to maneuver, instead of a tight mini that squeeze you like an anaconda.

3.         They make you feel great. Thanks to the soft fabric that moves when you move, giving you a great romantic look and appeal, better than a show-it-all mini skirt.

4.         You can sow your flowing midi skirt with the ever available and ever-green Ankara; meaning you can get loads of varieties. And don't they come cheap too?

5.         And with a plain jacket to match, you are all-corporate and ready for the boardroom.

Tuesday 19 January 2016

Having More Kids May Reduce A Woman's Aging



In a time when many couples are weary and cautious of having kids and large families due to economic and other reasons, research seem to suggest the more children women have, the slower they are likely to age. And I am sure this would be good news to some women.

Observing chromosomes, scientists found that women who have more kids have longer telomeres, which helps slow the aging process. 

Telomeres are caps of DNA at the end of each chromosome. Like the tips found at the end of shoelaces, telomeres protect chromosomes and their critical genetic information from damage.

Having sufficiently long telomeres is essential for cells to be able to multiply. As people age, telomeres shorten, eventually leading to cell death, according to the U.S. National Cancer Institute.

The new study by Simon Fraser University in British Columbia, Canada, included 75 women from two rural communities in Guatemala. Their telomere lengths were measured through cheek and saliva swabs taken twice 13 years apart.

The research suggested - but did not prove - that giving birth to more children was associated with a slower pace of telomere shortening and increased longevity.

These findings challenge previous research that concluded that having more children accelerates the rate of aging.

"The slower pace of telomere shortening found in the study participants who have more children, however, may be attributed to the dramatic increase in estrogen, a hormone produced during pregnancy. Estrogen functions as a potent antioxidant that protects cells against telomere shortening," said study leader Pablo Nepomnaschy, a health sciences professor from Simon Fraser.

The researchers noted that the women's social environment may have also influenced their slower rate of aging. 


"The women we followed over the course of the study were from natural fertility populations where mothers who bear numerous children receive more social support from their relatives and friends," said Nepomnaschy in a university news release. "Greater support leads to an increase in the amount of metabolic energy that can be allocated to tissue maintenance, thereby slowing down the process of aging."

It is indeed the dream of the average woman to remain young and ever pretty. This may truly be possible considering the report of the study. But what is your choice? More kids? Or you stay the way you are?