One reason why relationships become
unhealthy and degenerate to having a mean partner who is respectful, hurtful,
controlling, and emotional abusive is the lack of open communication.
Many people are uncomfortable with expressing
anger for fear that it will damage their relationships. Some spouses,
especially women, are taught to be quiet and bottle up everything and be
submissive entirely to their husbands, irrespective of how they feel or the
circumstances.
However, if feelings are buried, they don't go
away, they just fester. And in such cases, this is simply evidence of a crisis
waiting to happen.
It's critical for couples to learn how to
disagree respectfully and without attacking your spouse.
If a safe environment is created for discussing
feelings, it's much easier for the reserved spouse to have the courage to share
from their heart and resolve any conflict.
It may surprise you to know that men want to be
understood, just like woman want to be understood. Let’s just create the
atmosphere and opportunity for our partners to free to express themselves.
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