Whether you just found out you’re
pregnant or you’ve known for a few months, announcing your pregnancy to family
and friends can be a lot of fun. Some may want to wait until a certain time
during their pregnancy, while others want to call everyone immediately after
finding out themselves.
Telling The Father
Have a romantic dinner for two
with candle lights. It may be your last time for a while, between morning
sickness and raising your little one. Serve up baby carrots, baby back ribs and
anything else you can think as baby. At the end, pour apple juice instead of
wine and hand him a present. Inside you can have a tiny baby bib that says, “My
heart, My Daddy” or a pair of baby booties.
If you can’t tell the father right
away because he’s away on business, or deployed try sending him a care package.
Inside the box place a few baby items, everything in blue and pink and a baby
naming book in the centre. Place a note on top of the book with, “I need a name
soon, I’ll be here by June” or whenever the baby is due.
You can also see how long it
takes him to figure it out. Go to the store and pick up a bunch of small baby
items, a bib, rattle, bottle, booties, etc. For a week, leave an item laying
around the house where he is bound to find them. At the end of the week if he
hasn’t figured it out yet, prepare the big gift. Have a large teddy bear
sitting at the dinner table in the seat beside him. Make sure there is a bib
wrapped around him and maybe a sign that says, “Hi Daddy”.
Telling Family and Friends
Show up to a family gathering
wearing a shirt that announces your state. These days there are a ton of shirts
out there with clever sayings, “Baby on Board,” “A Bun in the Oven,” or
something related to the pregnancy. The moment you walk in or take off your
jacket everyone will figure it out without you ever having to say a word. Now,
get ready for the tears and excitement. You’ll be answering a ton of questions.
If you already have children you
may want to call the grandparents up and tell them that the next Christmas they
may want to add one more to the list.
If this is the first grandchild,
you may want to get a bracelet link for your mom that reads, “#1 Grandma” or
grandparent t-shirts. This will not only be a great present for them but
something they will cherish and love forever.
No matter when you spread the
news it can be a lot of fun. Just think creatively and let the pieces fall. You
may even want to try catching all of it on video. So think ahead and prepare for
the BIG moment, and I’m not meaning the birth.
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