“My Marriage Is On Fire”! …Wife Cries For Help

Please add your voice to this! One of our clients has an issue in her home and wants to seek your opinion their behalf.

Kemi’s husband receives long calls repeatedly from a particular female business partner almost everyday at odd hours of the night when the couple is in bed

; and sometimes just before dawn to wake him up.

The call log of the man is filled with calls – both missed and answered ones from the said woman. According to Kemi, “the conversations do not lead to any business transactions”. And she insists the must stop as they intrude into their home, especially at late hours.

The husband sometimes delete the call times of this ‘intruder’ from his phone log to avoid argument with his wife. But he argues that the woman caller is “just a friend” and a business partner and sees nothing wrong in the calls. According to him, “it is not an issue, and nothing is wrong!”

But Kemi will take none of these.

Sincerely, what do you advice this couple to do before the situation gets worse as the wife is threatening to receive her own calls too?

•   Should anyone be calling the opposite sex, especially a married person at night when that person is likely to be with his or her spouse?

•    Should business not be kept or left for business hours?

•  Should a married person indulge in late night calls with the opposite sex, even if it is for business?

•  Should a married person attend to such calls when he/she is with the partner in bed?

•  What is the ideal time to stop late night calls?

• Yes, how can this couple repair the trust in their marriage that is seemingly on trial?

Waiting to hear from you!