In
marriage, there are two kinds of love. There’s passionate love and there’s compassionate
love.
If you are you need to know what
kind of love you have otherwise, frustration and unnecessary friction from misconceptions
would cripple your home and relationship.
1. Passionate
Love
Passionate love is the love at the beginning of a
relationship. It’s the excitement and the romance and illogical arousal that
you experience when you really don’t know your partner.
We
know that passionate love declines after about 18 months. Then we start forming
what we call compassionate love, the love of friendship, support and intimacy.
2. Compassionate
Love
If something happens to you, the person that you go to is
the one with whom you feel compassionate love. It’s the person who supports you
in your big scares of life, and in the little daily experiences that go on day
in and day out. It’s the love of friendship.
Couples
who have been together for a long time, practice and talk more about
compassionate love, or real love much more than the passionate kind.
The
value of learning the truth is priceless, especially when it comes to love and
relationships.
So
what kind of love is yours?
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