Where Do You Stand In Your Relationship? (Relationship Problems Quiz) - 1

We are created and wired to go into relationships. No man can thrive outside one form of relationship or the other. And marriage is the acme of relationships.

But relationships are not always without frictions. Relationship problems can really make ones life less enjoyable or completely miserable. And when this happens, it also impacts other people and areas of your life.

But whatever the case, must we perpetually live with relationship-problems or issues?

Happiness and joy can be attained if you decide that is what you want. Love, appreciation and a warm healthy relationship can be enjoyed in its best form.

One key achieving this is to know where you stand in your relationship. This will help you solve your issues or at least clear it up.

But what truly constitute relationship problems?

What are relationship problems?

When people come together and relate closely, issues may occur. It is a normal part of life. But you must realize that what may be a relationship problem for me might not be a relationship problem for you. It then becomes a matter of labeling the issue at hand or knowing where you stand!

But there are some common qualities which show that a relationship is having real problems.

•     You don’t feel good about the other and the relationship 
•    You don’t communicate well enough with the other 
•     You don’t feel enough commitment towards the other 
•     Mutual respect could be better 
•     Mutual understanding could be better

So where do you stand in your relationship? Please take this simple relationship-problems quiz and you will know where you stand.

Answer the questions honestly and quickly without thinking too long and deep. There are of course no wrong nor right answers. The right answer is the one which now feels most true to you. And you do not have to share the results with anybody. 

Relationship Problems Quiz - Part A

Thinking of the person you have a relationship with, do you feel good?	Yes	No
Thinking of the relationship at hand, do you feel happy and light?	Yes	No
Do you feel respected enough in this relationship?	Yes	No
Do you feel you have enough understanding of this person?	Yes	No
Do you feel the person has enough understanding of you?	Yes	No
Do you feel communication is adequate in this relationship?	Yes	No
Do you feel commitment is strong enough in this relationship?	Yes	No
Do you feel warm affection thinking about this relationship?	Yes	No
Do you see this relationship moving forward?	Yes	No
Thinking of the person you are relating to, do you feel there is adequate trust?	Yes	No

For the Part A questions, each time you answered “YES” give yourself 1 point. Each time you answered “NO” is zero points. Add up all Part A scores.