Victim Gives Bill Cosby A ‘Present’ After He Allegedly Raped Her

Andrea Constand told a detective in 2005 that she gave Bill Cosby a sweater as a present during months after she claimed the comedian sexually assaulted her.

Katharine Hart, a former detective for the Montgomery County District Attorney’s Office, testified at a preliminary hearing in the criminal case against Cosby in court on Tuesday. A judge ruled that the sexual assault case against Cosby will move forward. If convicted, the 78-year-old comedian could face as much as 10 years in prison.

Constand claims that Cosby sexually assaulted her inside his Philadelphia home in January 2004. A year later, she was interviewed by Hart where she laid out what she said happened between her and Cosby. (Hart read mostly from a transcript in court that Constand reviewed and edited following the interview.)

After testifying for the prosecution, Hart was cross-examined by Cosby’s attorney, Brian McMonagle. His strategy is simple: discredit Constand by questioning her behavior after the alleged rape.

“Is it the case that [Constand] told you she brought her family to his show, and brought him a present, a sweater?” McMonagle asked Hart as he directed her to that portion of Constand’s transcript.

“Yes,” Hart replied.

McMonagle then moved to undercut Constand by contrasting her account of what happened immediately prior to the alleged assault that she first gave to police in Canada before she spoke to American authorities.

Constand, who was living in Toronto when she first reported Cosby to police in January 2005, told them that Cosby had “taken her out to dinner and out in [Philadelphia’s] Chinatown,” according to a police report read in court. Constand later told Hart, according to the transcript, that she had driven herself to Cosby’s home.

The prosecution objected to McMonagle’s questions as being irrelevant to whether or not Constand was assaulted.

No matter how they got to his home, Constand recalled telling Cosby she did not feel well soon after they arrived. Constand said that’s when Cosby briefly left the room they were in and returned with blue pills, which he said were “herbal” and would “make you feel good, make you relax.”

“I said to him that I trust him,” Constand said, according to Hart, and she swallowed the pills. Cosby insisted she try the wine he’d poured for her, Constand said, though she’d declined because she said had not eaten.

“OK, you can drink it or you can nurse it,” Cosby told her, according to the interview transcript.

Constand told detectives that she began to feel dizzy and afraid soon after ingesting the pills.

“I said to him ‘I can’t even see, Mr. Cosby,” Hart recounted Constand as saying.

“I’m going to lay you down on the couch and let you relax,” Cosby said, according to the interview.

Constand told Hart she lay on the couch, unable to move or open her eyes.

“I wasn’t aware of any sounds. I don’t know where Mr. Cosby went,” Hart said Constand recalled.

Then Constand said she was very much aware of Cosby when he put his hands on her breasts and his fingers inside her vagina. Constand told Hart that Cosby lay behind her on the couch and reached into her pants from behind. Constand said Cosby took her right hand and placed on his penis, which was erect. 

Constand says she fell asleep and found her shirt pulled up and her bra backwards when she woke up at 4 a.m.

“The snap was in the front not the back — I couldn’t have done that myself if I wanted to,” Constand said, according to Hart. Cosby then gave Constand her a mixed-berry muffin and tea before she left, she recalled.

McMonagle said he objected to Hart’s testimony in its entirety, arguing it was hearsay and that the accuser herself, Constand, should be required to appear before the court and “answer questions like: ‘Why did you wait so long to report?’”

Judge Elizabeth A. McHugh agreed with the prosecution that she could not consider questions of credibility during the preliminary hearing and dismissed McMonagle’s attempt to compel Constand to take the stand on Tuesday morning.

Constand met Cosby at Temple University, where she was the director of the women’s basketball team and he was a prominent booster for the university. 

Following Constand’s report to authorities in 2005, Montgomery County D.A. Bruce Castor said he found insufficient evidence to corroborate her story and indict Cosby. Ten years later, however, D.A. Kevin Steele reopened the case and indicted Cosby thanks in part to his deposition in a civil trial brought by Constand. 

In the deposition, Cosby admitted giving other women quaaludes before sex. (Cosby said this sex was consensual; several dozen women have said it was not.) A judge unsealed the transcript said last year because Cosby had “voluntarily narrowed the zone of privacy” he was entitled by by donning “the mantle of public moralist,” the judge wrote. Constand and Cosby settled out of court for an undisclosed sum of money. 

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Signs Of An Abusive Marriage And How To Protect Yourself

Here are signs that demonstrate that you are in an abusive relationship:

Financial Abuse

If you share your finances, you should both have a say in how you invest and spend your money, where it goes, etc.

You are in an abusive relationship if your spouse will not let you work or takes the money you earn away from you. If he or she will not allow you to further your education or gives you a small allowance that is not enough to live on, then he or she is using money to control your whereabouts and your ability to leave him or her more easily.

Emotional Abuse

Most people are guilty of calling their spouse a name or two in the middle of a heated argument. But if your husband or wife is constantly belittling you – referring to you by offensive names, degrading you in front of others, criticizing your housework or behavior, putting down your appearance, and making you feel badly about yourself, then you are a victim of emotional abuse.

Wearing you down emotionally might make you feel as though no one else will ever love you and that you deserve to be treated badly. No one deserves that.

Stalking/Harassment

Some jealousy in a relationship can be healthy. It’s understandable if your husband would rather you didn’t e-mail your ex-boyfriend now that you’re married. But if he checks all your e-mails and interrogates you about the men with whom you work, friends, or even relatives, then there’s something more sinister going on.

Certainly, if he begins following you to work, the gym, etc. or calling constantly to know exactly what you’re doing, then you have a problem. This is a sign that he wants to control your every move and that he doesn’t trust you. A marriage – or any relationship for that matter – without trust lacks true love and is broken.

Threats to You or Your Family

When your spouse is threatening to hurt you, your family, or your children, you must take it seriously – even if you don’t think he or she would actually follow through.

People would not threaten you if they didn’t want to scare you, which is abuse in and of itself. Plus, what if he or she did make good on the threat? After all, he or she said it. Is that a risk you really want to take?

Sexual Abuse

Fewer people come out and talk about sexual abuse in their romantic relationships and marriages. But it happens. Many boyfriends or husbands force their partner to perform sexual acts that are painful, violent, or make them feel uncomfortable, she adds. If your spouse forces you to do something you don’t want to do, it is abuse and it’s another way to control the relationship and you.

Physical Abuse

Some people say that the abuser did not leave a mark or only lightly slapped them, and he or she apologized and won’t do it again. This is still abuse. And it will probably happen again, she adds.

If your husband hit you once, he’ll likely do it again. You alone can not help him. You must first think about your own safety.

Still, it’s difficult for some people to know when they are in danger.

About 25 percent of 172 couples from Los Angeles who participated in a recent study on couples during their first five years of marriage admitted to getting physically aggressive with one another. Although the researchers in that study explained that what they were researching was not domestic violence, this research makes it easy to see how blurry the line can be.

If you feel threatened or harmed in any way, you need to seek help as soon as possible. Period. That goes for women and men who are abused. It’s rarer – at least in part because of the stigma – but men seek help too.

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