Showing posts with label dysfunction families. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dysfunction families. Show all posts

Friday, 5 February 2016

Wife Disrupts Her Own Funeral, Horrifying Her Husband, Who Had Paid To Have Her Killed


Noela Rukundo sat in a car outside her home, watching as the last few mourners filed out. They were leaving a funeral — her funeral.

Finally, she spotted the man she’d been waiting for. She stepped out of her car, and her husband put his hands on his head in horror.

“Is it my eyes?” she recalled him saying. “Is it a ghost?”

“Surprise! I’m still alive!” she replied.

Far from being elated, the man looked terrified. Five days earlier, he had ordered a team of hit men to kill Rukundo, his partner of 10 years. And they did — well, they told him they did. They even got him to pay an extra few thousand dollars for carrying out the crime.

Now here was his wife, standing before him. In an interview with the BBC Thursday, Rukundo recalled how he touched her shoulder to find it unnervingly solid. He jumped. Then he started screaming.
“I’m sorry for everything,” he wailed.

But it was far too late for apologies; Rukundo called the police. The husband, Balenga Kalala, ultimately pleaded guilty and was sentenced to nine years in prison for incitement to murder, according to the Australian Broadcasting Corporation (the ABC).

The happy ending — or, as happy as can be expected to a saga in which a man tries to have his wife killed — was made possible by three unusually principled hit men, a helpful pastor and one incredibly gutsy woman: Rukundo herself.

Here is how she pulled it off.

Rukundo’s ordeal began almost exactly a year ago, when she flew from her home in Melbourne with her husband, Kalala, to attend a funeral in her native Burundi. Her stepmother had died and the service left her saddened and stressed. She retreated to her hotel room in Bujumbura, the capital, early in the evening; despondent after the events of the day, she lay down in bed. Then her husband called.

“He told me to go outside for fresh air,” she told the BBC.

But the minute Rukundo stepped out of her hotel, a man charged forward, pointing a gun right at her.
“Don’t scream,” she recalled him saying. “If you start screaming, I will shoot you. They’re going to catch me, but you? You will already be dead.”

Rukundo, terrified, did as she was told. She was ushered into a car and blindfolded so she couldn’t see where she was being taken. After 30 or 40 minutes, the car came to a stop, and Rukundo was pushed into a building and tied to a chair.

She could hear male voices, she told the ABC. One asked her, “You woman, what did you do for this man to pay us to kill you?”

“What are you talking about?” Rukundo demanded.

“Balenga sent us to kill you.”

They were lying. She told them so. And they laughed.

“You’re a fool,” they told her.

There was the sound of a dial tone, and a male voice coming through a speakerphone. It was her husband’s voice.

“Kill her,” he said.

And Rukundo fainted.

Rukundo had met her husband 11 years earlier, right after she arrived in Australia from Burundi, according to the BBC. He was a recent refugee from the Democratic Republic of Congo, and they had the same social worker at the resettlement agency that helped them get on their feet. Since Kalala already knew English, their social worker often recruited him to translate for Rukundo, who spoke Swahili.

They fell in love, moved in together in the Melbourne suburb of Kings Park, and had three children (Rukundo also had five kids from a previous relationship). She learned more about her husband’s past — he had fled a rebel army that had ransacked his village, killing his wife and young son. She also learned more about his character.

“I knew he was a violent man,” Rukundo told the BBC. “But I didn’t believe he can kill me.”
But, it appeared, he could.

Rukundo came to in the strange building somewhere near Bujumbura. The kidnappers were still there, she told the ABC.

They weren’t going to kill her, the men then explained — they didn’t believe in killing women, and they knew her brother. But they would keep her husband’s money and tell him that she was dead. After two days, they set her free on the side of a road, but not before giving her a mobile phone, recordings of their phone conversations with Kalala, and receipts for the $7,000 in Australian dollars they allegedly received in payment, according to Australia’s The Age.

 “We just want you to go back, to tell other stupid women like you what happened,” Rukundo said she was told before the gang members drove away.

Shaken, but alive and doggedly determined, Rukundo began plotting her next move. She sought help from the Kenyan and Belgian embassies to return to Australia, according to The Age. Then she called the pastor of her church in Melbourne, she told the BBC, and explained to him what had happened. Without alerting Kalala, the pastor helped her get back home to her neighborhood near Melbourne.

Meanwhile, her husband had told everyone she had died in a tragic accident and the entire community mourned her at her funeral at the family home. On the night of Feb. 22, 2015, just as the widower Kalala waved goodbye to neighbors who had come to comfort him, Rukundo approached him, the very man whose voice she’d heard over the phone five days earlier, ordering that she be killed.

“I felt like somebody who had risen again,” she told the BBC.

Though Kalala initially denied all involvement, Rukundo got him to confess to the crime during a phone conversation that was secretly recorded by police, according to The Age.

“Sometimes Devil can come into someone, to do something, but after they do it they start thinking, ‘Why I did that thing?’ later,” he said, as he begged her to forgive him.

Kalala eventually pleaded guilty to the scheme. He was sentenced to nine years in prison by a judge in Melbourne.

“Had Ms Rukundo’s kidnappers completed the job, eight children would have lost their mother,” Chief Justice Marilyn Warren said, according to the ABC. “It was premeditated and motivated by unfounded jealousy, anger and a desire to punish Ms. Rukundo.”

Rukundo said that Kalala tried to kill her because he thought she was going to leave him for another man — an accusation she denies.

But her trials are not yet over. Rukundo told the ABC she’s gotten backlash from Melbourne’s Congolese community for reporting Kalala to the police. Someone left threatening messages for her, and she returned home one day to find her back door broken. She now has eight children to raise alone, and has asked the Department of Human Services to help her find a new place to live.

And lying in bed at night, Kalala’s voice still comes to her: “Kill her, kill her,” she told the BBC. “Every night, I see what was happening in those two days with the kidnappers.”

Despite all that, “I will stand up like a strong woman,” she said. “My situation, my past life? That is gone. I’m starting a new life now.”


Monday, 7 December 2015

Pastor Marries Pregnant Teenager With Wife’s Permission



 
Wonders shall never end. Recently we published the story of a woman who said she would let her husband cheat on her (Clink Here To Read). Now, Belinda who has been married for seven years wants her husband, Miller, to marry another wife.

Miller is now building a bigger home so he can split his time between his two ladies, whom he calls sister wives.

And he believes their polygamous lifestyle is strengthening family ties.

“It means they always have a friend with them.”

Miller met his 19-year-old gal pal, Reba Kerfootruba, seven years after he married his wife, Belinda.

“I wanted to have more of a family — having another lady in the house not only makes our family whole but individually it’s a beautiful thing because it’s like having a sister around,” Belinda said. “Thom is the love of my life and Reba is the blessing of my life, so it all works.”

Reba said her arrangement with a married couple initially troubled her family and friends, but now they support her.

 “They’re happy as long as they know I am happy,” she said.

She admitted that she doesn’t love sharing her man with another woman.

“But I try not to get jealous and when it’s not my time with Thom, I just try to occupy myself by going out with friends,” Reba told Barcroft. “The baby will have two moms, which I’m okay with.”

And while Miller’s ladies are both on board with their love triangle, his church in Mansfield, Ohio, isn’t.
“I don’t preach about polygamy, but I feel it’s a very Christian lifestyle,” he said. “This is America and my wives and I have a right to live any way we please, providing we’re not hurting anybody.”

Miller turned to Christianity after he spent seven years in jail for stabbing someone during a bar fight following years as a member of the mob, according to the news outlet.

“I knew I had to make a change,” he said. “I wanted to live a more Christian life.”

Now he has that — and just wants to settle down with his wives.

“We just want the opportunity to live together and have our marriages recognized,” he said.
Polygamy is illegal in all 50 states.


Friday, 9 October 2015

Nigerian Woman Killed In London By Her Son



It has been reported that Tolu Kalejaiye was gruesomely stabbed to death by her own biological son, Oladotun Emmanuel Kalejaiye on Thursday, September 26th.

The 46-year-old hardworking mother was found stabbed to death at her house in Wickford, Essex around 10 am on Thursday morning. 

As at the time of reporting, 21years old son Oladotun has been charged for murder. Dotun was arrested by British Police minutes after the shocking discovery of his mother’s battered body in her bedroom.

According to the late Tolu Kalejaiye‘s neighbour, she is a hardworking accountant and a very friendly woman. The Abeokuta-born woman studied Accounting & Finance at Middlesex University in Hendon, North London.

Update soon.

Tuesday, 6 October 2015

14-Year-Old Boy Kills Parents



A 14-year-old boy wailed uncontrollably in the back of a police car just minutes after he shot his parents to death.
Moments earlier, the boy called 911.

911 Operator: "Ok, what is your name?"

Alex: "Alex."

911 Operator: "Alex, what is going on?"

Alex: "My parents are shot."

911 Operator: "Your parents are shot?"

Alex: "Yes."

911 Operator: "Ok, who shot your parents?"

Alex: "I did."
Alex Crain told the 911 operator he did it.
911 Operator: "Are they breathing?"

Alex: "I don't know. I hit my father in the shoulder and I don't know where I hit my mom. I don't know why I did it."

Lying inside the bathroom of the family's home in Naples, Florida were Alex's parents, 39-year-old Kelly and 40-year-old Thomas. The 911 Operator told Alex to call out for his mother.

Alex: "Mom. Mom. Mom. Answer me, mom."

But there would be no answer. Both parents were dead.  Alex realized this in the back of the police cruiser.

Alex cried out: "I swear I didn't mean to kill them. What the [blank] is wrong with me?"

911 Operator: "Were you upset with your parents?"

Alex: "No, I wasn't upset. I didn't mean for this to happen. Now they're dead."

Alex was taken to the Naples police station where his mug shot was taken. He was given food and read his rights. Detectives thought they were about to hear how and why he could have done such a horrible thing.

A detective asked, "Tell me in your own words why you did it."

Suddenly, the wailing kid in the car was all business.

"Shouldn't I have a lawyer?" asked Alex.

And with that, just like in TV cop shows, the detectives left the room. Alex wrapped himself in a blanket for warmth.

Alex just pled guilty and was sentenced to 20 years. Prosecutor Rich Montecalvo said, "Why did he do it? I don't think we will ever know unless Alex Crain decides to tell us."

Monday, 5 October 2015

Mum Who Killed Sons 'Because Husband Paid Them More Attention Than Daughter'



A mother who calmly called 911 to report that her baby son wasn't breathing later admitted to police that she had killed him and her two other sons over the past year, authorities said.

Brittany Pilkington, 23, said she took their lives because her husband paid more attention to them than their three-year-old daughter, according to authorities in Bellefontaine, Ohio.

Logan County prosecutor William Goslee, who interviewed Pilkington, told The Columbus Dispatch: "In her mind, she was protecting her daughter from being not as loved as the boys were by their father."

Pilkington was charged with three counts of murder on Tuesday and is in jail.

She is accused of killing three-month-old Noah Pilkington, who passed away on Tuesday, as well as four-year-old Gavin, who passed away in April, and three-month-old Nial, who died in July 2014.

Her daughter, Hailey, has since been taken into custody by a county child welfare agency.

Officers went to the family's apartment on Tuesday morning after Pilkington called 911 to say that Noah wasn't breathing. She was calm as she answered a dispatcher's questions while the baby's sleep apnea alarm beeped in the background, police told the Associated Press.

The baby boy was pronounced dead at a hospital.

His death came as authorities were already investigating what had happened to the other boys, who were found unresponsive by their father when he returned home from work. Their causes of death still hadn't been determined.

Pilkington's uncle told the Columbus Dispatch that Hailey and Noah had been in the custody of children's services following Gavin's death but were returned to their parents this month.

Goslee said the children were handed back to their parents after a coroner determined the deaths weren't suspicious.

Investigators said there is no evidence that Pilkington's husband had anything to do with the deaths, WBNS reported.

Police Chief Brandon K. Standley said in a statement on Tuesday: "The tragic deaths of Niall, Gavin and Noah leave a pit in our stomachs today. Our condolences go out to the remaining family members who have supported this family through a very difficult 13 months."

The Ohio Bureau of Criminal Investigation is assisting local authorities.