So
many couples grapple with the challenge of crying babies. Some fathers get
hysterical and scream at their wives to tend to their crying infants as though
the toddler has a remote button that their mothers push to control them. The
usually question is, “what does he want again?”
Yes,
what does a crying baby wants?
Communication
- that's what a baby's crying is for. The sweet thing that suddenly turns into
a fit of tears is just craving for your sweeter attention. All cultures in the
world nod to this pattern all infants are accustomed to.
A
baby cries the most during his or her first three months. Though the amount of
crying steadily increase, the crying time period may vary from an hour to most
of the day and this could still be considered within normal range. Babies are
also known as howling tear factories.
Some
thought that a baby cries more during the afternoon accounting it to the
anxiousness of the mother or the stressed mood of the father after going home
from work. But the most accepted assumption now is that babies have this
automatic screening ability they use to shut off all the noise that may
stimulate some response from them so they could get enough rest.
But
in the long run, this filter weakens and totally disappears during the
approximate age of six weeks. This, then, make a baby very sensitive to the
external factors such as noise, movements, etc. And these generally elicit a
reaction from a baby and how best could he or she respond but only through
crying.
There
are many reasons why a baby succumbs to crying. Deciphering these reasons is
the major feat a parent must surmount. Here are some of the things your
sweetsome baby is making you understand through crying.
1. Hunger. Yes, your attention-hungry baby is craving to let you
know that his tummy is grumbling. This is the most common reason for a baby to
cry, especially, during his early months.
The
pattern of the hunger howl could be characterized as being persistent,
demanding and almost rhythmical. But that rhythm is not at any rate close to
becoming musical, of course.
2. Boredom. What can I say? Aren't these babies just plain
spoiled? Crying because of boredom? Yes, you might find that a bit more twisted
or weird if it's with an adult that is. But babies are really built like this.
Crying
is their way of telling you, "Hey get me a life here!"
Aside
from attention and food, consequently, babies need a lot of stimulation. And
when they don't get this, there you get your waaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh!!! The
trick is to pick the baby up and play with him. This move may be frowned upon
by some because of its amounting to spoiling the baby.
But
it is important to know that stimulation is also one of the major necessities
of an infant and it won't hurt to provide him with some while in his growing
age. This boredom cry is said to be also rhythmical and full of sobs and moans.
3. Discomfort. Pain is another precursor of the baby's crying. Who
won't cry when in pain? Babies are not able to endure the most excruciating
discomfort they could undergo. They are little, vulnerable beings that need to
be attended to when injured or when in an inconvenient situation.
This
cry could be more persistent, louder and more demanding. Shrieking and
screaming, those are words that better describe the crying pattern roused by
pain.
4. Disturbance. surely, howling will proceed just when they're about
to sleep or are already fast asleep and suddenly gets surprised by some noise,
or movement. An illness that causes discomfort to a baby may also be the reason
for a baby's bursting into fit of tears.
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